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What's yours will always be yours!!!

It may take months or years but what’s meant for you will always find its way to you. It may take a lot of patience, a lot of overcoming challenges, a lot of moments of despair and a lot of heartbreaks, but what’s meant for you will always be worth the wait. It will make the painful years a little easier to swallow. It will make the journey a little sweeter to look back on. Every challenge, every heartbreak, every setback is meant to get us closer to what’s truly meant for us because God doesn’t make us suffer for no good reason. God doesn’t take away blessings from us unless he knows it’s not going to bless us in the future. While we may never know why God does things a certain way or why he chooses to teach us some hard lessons, we have to believe that it’s all part of a bigger plan. We may not see or understand the whole picture now, but when it’s done, we will understand that every stroke had a purpose, we’ll see how every little dot came together to create something meaningful, so...
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Love is rare to find 💫

Right from our school life, we know about love, an as great as they show in movies and dramas, you start believing that love is right there in your classroom, in your apartment, or just around you. Growing up you realise, it isn't that easy to find love. You like someone, they don't like you back. You fall for your bestfriend and you fear to confess. You love someone who's already seeing someone else, or sometimes, the worse, you get into a relationship and find out that your partner is cheating on you, isn't interested in you, the spark goes missing and what not. Yes, love was never simple as your kid self thought. It was always complicated. And even though you find it, it's a task to be a keeper. We look at love with so much perfection that it's engraved in our minds, that love is meant to be great. It's like, there won't be bad days, and everyday will be butterflies and roses. And that's how love becomes so difficult to keep. One thing goes wrong,...
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Peace looks good on you ☮️

There are times, when you feel nothing yet your head hurts. You begin to dislike everything, no matter what it is. You are neither rude, nor polite, for you choose silence over life. You don't even realise what it's like to be the person you are, but you stay quiet. You try to distract yourself from the reality, but fail terribly. Your desire to forget everything is accompanied by memories which hurt the deepest part of your soul, and yet, you choose the hurt. You are left with no clue about anything happening to you. You feel as if the universe has conspired against you. You feel strange when you think about happiness. You feel you have no purpose. And despite all the emotions crashing down in your mind, you feel your heart beating and choosing the pain to thrive. You feel a tiny of ray of hope glowing timidly, scared of the demons living within you. You realise you will grow through it, but the strength to endure the present remains hidden. You feel everybody noticing you, bu...
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Dependencies!!!!

Dependency is not a weakness. It’s actually healthy, as long as you can keep it balanced with independence. We all need to be taken care of, validated, encouraged, and given support. When we can receive these things from others and use them to nurture our spirits, this is healthy dependency. When we draw strength from these experiences, it allows us to more easily be independent at other times—relying on and caring for ourselves, and being the one to support others. This is called interdependence, and it’s a beautiful ebb and flow in relationships of both giving and being able to receive. As social as we human beings are, this is pretty necessary for our survival. The instincts for it run deep in our nature. Over-dependency is when you find yourself struggling to return to emotional independence when needed. For me, this involves a lot of worry and obsessing over what someone else thinks of me. It feels like an intense need for someone’s approval, othe...
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Love can't be timed it has to lived.

When you fall in love, you feel the happiest. Yes, you do remember the time you fell in love and every problem just seemed to disappear, and you said to yourself, "life's good, no, life's great." You smile often, you become very excited before you meet them, and the happiness inside you gets real and you can feel it. Once you realise it, you want to share it. You want to tell it to everyone and most importantly, you want to say it to them. Your joy has no limit, and you can't resist saying it to people who are around. Every wish that you make, involves them in your life. You suddenly start believing in shooting stars, fallen eyelashes and FLAMES. You become superstitious, and you do things you never knew you'd ever do. When everyone teases you, you can't stop blushing. You ask them to stop, but deep down you're enjoying it, when people associate your name with theirs. The feeling is different from winning a match, getting the dress you wanted, or havin...
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